Sooooooo now that I am back home again and settled in I’ve been exploring my kinkier side more and more. The past two months have been horny in the extreme. I’ve been in to Pup Play for a while now but over the past month I’ve been Pupping out at home more and more. Everyone has a kink and Pup play really REALLY agrees with me. As I’ve connected more and more with other Pups, Handlers and Masters Ive been really able to explore in a way that I wasn’t able to in the UK. Chastity is one of the things that I have really embraced over the past month.
Chastity boys or “locked” boys are exactly what the name says. A chastity cage worn over the cock prevents you from Jerking of or getting a full erection for the time that the cage is on.
BAM! a month later and I have not been able to get properly hard or cum.
It’s not for everyone and for a lad who is used to jerking off three or four times a day it’s been challenging, but it’s resulted in some interesting experiences and some unexpected benefits. However long you wear it for, your first erection after you take it off is more intense and a lot more fun than just a regular one. My experience so far is that the cage leaves me horny just about all the time and that makes me extremely suggestible, but it’s also made Anal sex a lot more satisfying and enjoyable which I will talk about in another post.
I wanted to try chastity because it fits with my sub space and I was curious why so many Pups and other young guys are getting in to. For me, the attraction was the loss of control and the potential of elevating my sex life above just wanking and fucking all the time. I’m not someone who has a lot of self-control in these things and so taking away my options is probably the best way to go about it.
I also wanted to try it because in a sub/Dom play space it’s a good way to feel the presence of my Master even while he is not there. Since I need my Dom’s influence to extend beyond the bedroom and into other parts of my life to be completely satisfied the cage is a great reminder of my submission and helps to build the headspace.
Over the next few weeks, I am going to share with you a lot more about my month in Chastity, my experiences and take a look at the cages themselves and how they work.