Dear Aussie Space Time Traveller,
I recently went out with a guy 4 times and on our last date we had sex. Since then he hasn’t really talked to me. We didn’t talk much through text in-between our dates, but now it seems that he has mostly disappeared. I’ve texted him 2 or 3 times and have received flakey responses. I don’t want to message him too much and scare him off if he’s actually interested (I know he’s generally busy). I thought we were hitting it off but I guess not. Has this ever happened to you? If so, how do you deal with it? I just started a low carb diet so my mood has been all over the place (mostly a mix of angry, hangry, sad, and anxious). I feel more upset about it than I think I should be.
Sadly this is pretty common and has happened to me quite a bit. I’ve also been guilty of doing it myself.
Ditch the low carb diet.
You deserve to be loved and treated with respect, never forget that. There are people out there who will come in to your life and stay because they see you for the amazing person you are. Be happy and safe.