If your relationship goals are based in fantasy then you are doomed to failure,
I’ve been on the receiving end of more than a few guys saying “wow I wish I had your body, wow I wish I had your life.” My reply;
Don’t be me, be you. My life is a mess, I’m constantly worried about how I look, my self esteem is unhealthily attached to how much I go to the gym, I suck at relationships, I’m a financial dunce, I beat myself up all the time for not being perfect, I get depressed – not the “I’m sad” kind of depressed, but the “I can’t be bothered to eat this week” kind of depressed.
You are more than your Instagram account and the relationship you deserve will come from real genuine connection. These couples just might have amazing relationships behind all the marketing but the goals we should we should be aspiring to like compassion, honesty, unconditional love, and empathy don’t come out of the box. They come after years of self examination and being honest with yourself. They come from having your heart broken and put back together by someone who cares about you more than they care about their next selfie;
and they take a lifetime to figure out.
Don’t be suckered in to comparing your life to people on social media because that’s exactly the point. Your supposed to look at them and say wow I want their life. You’re supposed to buy the clothes they wear and the eat the food they eat, go on holidays where they go and use the face cream they use because thats how they make their cash, thats what being an influencer is.