>I’m usually funny and dominant, but any time there’s ANY sort of attraction so someone I turn into a shy, bumbling idiot who creeps people out. Do you have ANY hope – i mean help – for me? Signed the lonely drummer boy

Of course there is hope for you. I was exactly the same. I couldn’t talk to anybody with out a little dutch courage.
Just be yourself. I know that is easier said than done but it’s true. The one thing that…