Happy Valentines Day

February 13, 2016

Happy Valentines day everyone, because love wins. Blog this! Recommend on Facebook Share via MySpace share via Reddit Tumblr it Tweet about it Subscribe to the comments on this post


How’s the abstinence thing working out for me?

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February 11, 2016

Okay I admit it I didn’t go cold Turkey. I had sex, but how’d the abstinence thing work out for me? So a while ago I posted about abstaining from sex and now a few months later it’s time to look back on how things are going. I haven’t been entirely celibate, abstinence for me hasn’t been about eliminating sex from my life entirely. It’s about taking a break from the…


It’s okay to ask for help.

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February 1, 2016

As you know a while ago I began writing about depression and how I am dealing with it and the strategies that I have been using to help myself when I begin feeling depressed. If you haven’t yet then you can find some of the articles under the category one in four. In many ways writing about it here and sharing my experiences is a cathartic experience. It helps to…


Surviving social media. Put down your phone.

November 11, 2015

Live in the moment. What’s the point of going to see something or visiting a place if you never actually connect with what you are doing and seeing. How many times have we done something only to observed it entirely through our phones? How many concerts have we been too where we can’t see anything because the person infront of us has their phone in the air? Surviving social media…


GAY 101. Slut shaming in the Gay community

November 10, 2015

Lately it seems like slut shaming in the Gay community has become a sport. Some of us have been making real waves giving the more promiscuous of us a hard time. For gay men sex is a fundamental part of our identity and who we are. For many of us sex is as much about having fun and enjoying our bodies as it is about intimacy. When I was struggling with my…


Surviving social media. How to smile without selfies.

November 7, 2015

So with all the talk about how fake social media is I thought I would put together a series on how I survive the social media minefield. How to smile without selfies How do you break the “I feel shit – post – get attention – feel better” cycle? Okay this one was a big one for me. It’s still something that I have to be very aware of and…


If it’s not real it’s because you made it not real.

November 5, 2015

  Social media is about sharing your life, but what happens when you start building your life for social media, where is the authenticity? Social media is back in the headlines as the discussion about what is real and what is fake resurfaces. Lots of people comment on how fake some people are or just how real or candid some of their posts are. I admit that I spend a…


Could the blonde come back?

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October 1, 2015

On this #throwbackthursday I ask myself, Could the blonde come back? A friend of mine stayed with me in London for the weekend on his way back to Australia. I’m very jealous that while he’s going to be enjoying beach days and parties in the sunshine I’m going to be freezing my arse of in Ole’blighty. But the reason for this post is something that he said to me while…


Telling each other to ignore the bullies isn’t helpful.

April 8, 2015

I have grown to dislike it, hate it even when people say to others regarding bullies, “oh just ignore them”. I remember being told “sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me”, but words do hurt and they can leave scars that run deep and last a lifetime. It was a lazy response from people who were either unwilling or ill-equipped to genuinely help. Telling…


Happy Valentines Day and 10 reasons why it’s ok to be single.

February 14, 2015

> For those of us spending this Valentines day as single men here’s and golden oldie. There is nothing wrong with being single, society sometimes treats us like we are broken or incomplete, It’s simply not true.   Blog this! Recommend on Facebook Share via MySpace share via Reddit Tumblr it Tweet about it Subscribe to the comments on this post