My Amazon Wishlist is back.

September 25, 2016

Hey everyone, Now that I have settled in to my new place a few readers have suggested that I add my Amazon Wishlist to the blog. There are lots of goodies from jocks and bikinis to a few other items that would make for some very fun posts. If you would like see what’s on the list just click on the image here or on the blogs sidebar.    …



September 25, 2016

Sooooo last night I went to the Trough XXIII party here in Melbourne. It’s a fetish party that happens every three months and attracts about 300 party goes from around Melbourne and interstate. It’s essentially a dance/sex party with a fetish element which is probably why it’s so popular as there isn’t much of this kind of thing in Australia especially outside of Melbourne. You don’t have to partake in…


SCUM BAG! updated.

August 12, 2016

As someone who receives messages all the time from young people fearful of coming out and living in the closet people like this make my blood boil. I’m sick of pulling my punches when Scum bags like Nico Hines are writing articles like this and presenting it as Journalism. Hines wrote an article for the Daily Beast which has since been edited about the hook-up app culture in the Olympic village and…


Keeping my goals in perspective.

July 27, 2016

So now that I have some time to step back and take a look at the last 2 years I am surprised by how well things have worked out. I set myself some pretty big goals and despite how I have felt about not achieving them the reality is very different. I’ve been much more negative over the past 2 years than I should have been. It’s a cycle that I’m…


Super busy

July 14, 2016

Hi all, This week has been super busy. I’m wrapping up work and getting ready to move back to Australia. I still have a few weeks here but I have to leave my current place tonight. It’s a shame because I love my room but I’ll be staying with a BFF for a few more weeks before I head off. I’ve gotten moving down to a fine art so it’s…


The blogs new look.

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July 14, 2016

  A big thank you to Danny Lyonne for the blogs new banner and new look. Danny is an artist who I discovered while exploring Instagram. I like his work so much that I decided to commission some artwork from him and he definitely hasn’t disappointed me. You can see the other images he created from me here.   Blog this! Recommend on Facebook Share via MySpace share via Reddit…


Choose my Superhero name and win! Extended

July 9, 2016

Update… Now that I have landed home and gotten over my jet lag (kind of) I’ll be announcing the winner this weekend and getting prizes sorted out next week. I’ve decided to extend the the deadline for name suggestions for my Superhero name. I’m still undecided so I thought why not give you all time for a few more entries. Enter as many times as you like guys. Thank you…


Black lives and Pride matter.

July 8, 2016

Protesters from activist group Black Lives Matter disrupted Toronto Pride over the weekend, grinding the parade to a halt. Recent events in Toronto have revealed just how much division there is within our own community. The targeting of Toronto Pride by BLM during a time when we should be coming together to show solidarity is a symptom of a wider racism problem within the GLBTIQ community. As a Gay Eurasian man…