Surviving social media. Put down your phone.

November 11, 2015

Live in the moment. What’s the point of going to see something or visiting a place if you never actually connect with what you are doing and seeing. How many times have we done something only to observed it entirely through our phones? How many concerts have we been too where we can’t see anything because the person infront of us has their phone in the air? Surviving social media…


GAY 101. Slut shaming in the Gay community

November 10, 2015

Lately it seems like slut shaming in the Gay community has become a sport. Some of us have beenĀ making real waves giving the more promiscuous of us a hard time. For gay men sex is a fundamental part of our identity and who we are. For many of us sex is as much about havingĀ fun and enjoying our bodies as it is about intimacy. When I was struggling with my…


Learning to spot when I’m not feeling right.

Gay couple
November 1, 2015

  Earlier in the week Pete sent me a message asking if I was still taking contributions to the blog. I’m always keen for other people to write and share their own experiences. Learning to spot when I’m not feeling right. By Pete. Around 8 years ago, friends and family recognised that I was going through a change. I was moodier and felt the pressure more when it came to…


When you believe it, you’ll see it!

October 24, 2015

How many of you have uttered the phrase I’ll believe it when I see it. I have done it on more than a few occasions myself. It’s an incredibly negative statement and immediately assumes that what we want isn’t going to happen. But when you assume the negative you immediately tell the Universe that it’s not going to happen and the you start turning the gears out of your favour….