More fan art…

April 5, 2016

This is amazing. I love the GIF, it’s really cool to be able to see the drawing process! The artist has done an amazing job! If you have anything of your own you would like to submit then please email it to me at         Blog this! Recommend on Facebook Share via MySpace share via Reddit Tumblr it Tweet about it Subscribe to the comments on…


Learning to spot when I’m not feeling right.

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November 1, 2015

  Earlier in the week Pete sent me a message asking if I was still taking contributions to the blog. I’m always keen for other people to write and share their own experiences. Learning to spot when I’m not feeling right. By Pete. Around 8 years ago, friends and family recognised that I was going through a change. I was moodier and felt the pressure more when it came to…


A new voice for the blog. Meet Humzah.

January 22, 2015

I’m really pleased today to introduce a new contributor to the blog. Humzah is a young Gay man living in Pakistan. Having Humzah on board adds a new perspective to the blog that many of us have never seen before. I hope you will welcome him just as much as you have supported me. Gay Life in Pakistan Hi, I’m from Pakistan and recently asked Shannon if I could write…


Life is precious, so why hesitate to live it to the fullest?

October 18, 2012

This week our guest Writer Peter, shares his very personal experience about the death of his Mother and his coming out. Today I buried the ashes of my mother. As my family and I lowered the urn into the ground, all of the memories came flooding back. All of the days and nights in the hospital, all of the times she was sick at home, her last weeks in hospice….


You are beautiful.

September 14, 2012

Guest writer Peter talks about being jealous and feeling attractive. We’ve all done it, we all look at the guy on the bus with the arms of steel, tight bubble butt and the smile to die for and thought to ourselves ‘I wish I had his body’. I’ll admit that I do it everyday and it feels as though I go in phases. For a few days I’ll feel like…


Becoming out. Blog reader Sterling talks about his coming out experience in the first of a series of posts.

Some people see coming out as a certain, particular point in their lives.  It’s always viewed as that point when you actually tell someone…”I am gay”.  My story has shown coming out to be a process, not a singular incident in time.  This arduous path is usually filled with moments of uncertainty and self-doubt.  But as those who have traveled on this road know, the end is worth the rocky road. I wish…

August 21, 2012


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August 10, 2012

Cheating it seems is something that we will all do or experience at some point in our lives. Blog reader and writer Peter examines his own experience and feelings. A friend of mine at work said to me I’ve never known a gay guy who hasn’t cheated and she asked me if I had. I replied with all honestly yes I have, she then said to me all gay guys…


Don’t rain on my parade by Lucas Brooks

June 29, 2012

Every year, just before Pride, I end up having to endure some form of lecture or rant about why someone isn’t going to the parade. This weekend I asked a friend of mine if he planned had any festivities planned and he replied with something about how he discovered his Pride his own way and doesn’t need a bunch of go-go boys dancing around pretending we’re a community (not a…


Sticky Eyes.

Todays post comes from Top to Bottom By Lucas Brooks When I see something that I find visually appealing, I naturally like the look at it. I like to look at it for as long as possible. I don’t find this strange, do you? Well, it will probably come as no surprise to you that one of the things I enjoy looking at the most in this world is an…

May 4, 2012

A Rant against the Ripped!

Todays article comes from one of my favourite bloggers Lucas over at Top to Bottom NYC. I will admit the picture got my attention but as always Lucas makes a great point and did make me feel just a little bit guilty. Once upon a time, porn was just porn to me. If it had an erect phallus being stimulated to climax, I was content. But now, when I browse…

March 31, 2012

Facebook’s Revenge

Today’s guest writer is Lucas from Top to bottom NYC. If you found a photo on Facebook of me in my undies making out with another boy…would you judge me? I mean, it isn’t tagged, so you don’t really know that it’s me…right? RIGHT? I thought I had overcome this obstacle ages ago. In fact, I don’t even know that I ever really worried about what went up on Facebook before this…

March 1, 2012

To camp it or not to camp it?

For a little while now I have had my thinking cap on about what I can do to add some new perspectives and some fresh ideas to the blog. I thought it might be nice to add a few guest Writers. I think it’s a great way to give others a chance to write and to bring some new and different views to the blog. I am really pleased with…

February 23, 2012