An open letter to my 16yo self.

March 19, 2014

Three years ago I wrote this letter to myself in response to a question from a blog reader. It’s as relevant now as it ever was. If you could meet your 16yo self what would you say? Dear Shannon, you don’t know me but I know you and I want you to know, it gets better. I know right now that you feel like the world is a place where…


I am 17, my friends in school always ask me whether I am gay…In fact, I am, but I don’t want to tell anybody yet. How do I respond to them when they ask me?

February 20, 2014

How you respond depends on how comfortable you are with them asking you if you are Gay. If you don’t mind them asking then it’s easier to shrug off the question and smile. If you are uncomfortable or you are worried about how they might react then I can understand that it may be harder. Coming out isn’t always easy and dealing with questions from friends can make it even…


I met a straight guy who has sent sexual vibes my way. He has the biggest feet I have ever scene and has triggered my interest. How should I approach this situation? Thanks

February 12, 2014

You need to approach this carefully. If you know he is straight then what makes you think that he is sending “sexual vibes” your way? Make sure that you are absolutely sure that you are not misreading him. Friendly doesn’t always mean interested and wishful thinking doesn’t make something true. Some straight guys are flirty it doesn’t mean they are curious or in the closet. He may simply be so comfortable…


I came out a few months ago, but was wondering: do you think that there are circumstances, if any, when you would advise against coming out of the closet?

February 8, 2014

Firstly congratulations on coming out. It is hard to do and take courage. Coming out is hard but there are few situations where I would recommend that you do not come out. I would answer that if you are in danger of being physically assaulted or if you feel your life may be in danger if you come out then it may be better to wait until you are out…


Q & A time.

November 30, 2013

It’s been a long time since my last Q & A video post, so team Space Time traveller… Ask away. Leave a comments below or send your questions by email to and I’ll answer them in my next video post. I might even entertain the odd request or two 😉 Don’t be shy. I’ll try to answer as many questions as I can.   Blog this! Recommend on Facebook…


Hey Aussie Space Time Traveller. My mind wondered ahead of us into space-time: How do you think your taste in guys will evolve over the years as you grow older? Will we still see juicy twinks on the blog in 10 and/or 20 years?

September 3, 2012

Hey Aussie Space Time Traveller. My mind wondered ahead of us into space-time: How do you think your taste in guys will evolve over the years as you grow older? Will we still see juicy twinks on the blog in 10 and/or 20 years? I don’t think that I will ever get tired of juicy Twinks. Firm bouncy Twinks. Sweet smooth Twinks… errr. what? Twinks are a lot of fun…


Gay 101. So you wanna have a threesome, how do you tell your boyfriend, and could it damage your relationship?

tongue out
August 29, 2012

There are very few of us who have not at least thought about a threesome or a moresome at some point. The idea of group sex not only makes us horny but also curious. Threesomes and group sex can be awesome fun, but how do we raise the subject with our boyfriend or significant other? Sometimes couples will introduce a guest star to spice things up, but they can also…


Formspring Question. Have you ever used a Banana in a seductive way?

August 20, 2012

Banana’s always seem to come up in this kind of question for obvious reasons. They look like a dick. That long shaft and gentle curve evokes all kinds of images. This question reminds me of sitting in Sex Ed watching my middle aged Phys Ed Teacher explain to a room full of giggling teenage boys how to roll on a condom. He used a banana, and then a softball bat….


Could you elaborate on your slave boy fantasy?

Earlier this week I was asked by a reader, Could you elaborate on your slave boy fantasy? The slave boy fantasy is something that has been a bit of fun for me for some time now. Fantasies and roll plays can be very erotic, especially when you do them with somebody who is just as committed to it as you are. The slave boy fantasy is not uncommon, you only need…

June 8, 2012