Sticking to your new years resolutions

February 3, 2016

  We are already a month in to 2016 and by now many of us will have made new years resolutions and failed them. Why are some new years resolutions so hard to keep? I’ve made a lot of new years resolutions over the years, some I have kept and some I have broken. Like most people my resolutions are around changes I want to make like getting fit, finding…


Twelve months later and London still feels new. The stages you go through when moving to a new city.

January 16, 2016

 I’ve spent twelve months in London so far. Six months last year and another six months this year. You might think that it was starting to feel familiar to me but it’s still a long way from feeling like home. It’s well known that I’m missing the weather, beaches and food back home but there are somethings about London that I do love. It’s taken me a while to warm…


A day in Rochester.

December 30, 2015

The BFF and I decided to take advantage of our time off and head out for a little excursion to Rochester Castle. I’ve been looking for things to do around London and the surrounding countryside so when he suggested it I jumped at the chance. At less than an hour east from London, Rochester is a great spot for a day trip. If you are going to head out by train…


Holiday abs.

December 26, 2015

I’ve eaten way too much junk… waaaaayyy too much. Gingerbread houses, BBQ shapes, jelly beans, pizza, instant noodles and drunk lots of wine, it’s awesome. My Christmas abs are still on point though so I’m not too bummed LOL. My first Christmas in London has been a success I think. I spent last night drinking and singing badly with Aussie friends and today ( Boxing day ) I think we…


Surviving social media. Put down your phone.

November 11, 2015

Live in the moment. What’s the point of going to see something or visiting a place if you never actually connect with what you are doing and seeing. How many times have we done something only to observed it entirely through our phones? How many concerts have we been too where we can’t see anything because the person infront of us has their phone in the air? Surviving social media…


GAY 101. Slut shaming in the Gay community

November 10, 2015

Lately it seems like slut shaming in the Gay community has become a sport. Some of us have been making real waves giving the more promiscuous of us a hard time. For gay men sex is a fundamental part of our identity and who we are. For many of us sex is as much about having fun and enjoying our bodies as it is about intimacy. When I was struggling with my…


Surviving social media. How to smile without selfies.

November 7, 2015

So with all the talk about how fake social media is I thought I would put together a series on how I survive the social media minefield. How to smile without selfies How do you break the “I feel shit – post – get attention – feel better” cycle? Okay this one was a big one for me. It’s still something that I have to be very aware of and…


When you believe it, you’ll see it!

October 24, 2015

How many of you have uttered the phrase I’ll believe it when I see it. I have done it on more than a few occasions myself. It’s an incredibly negative statement and immediately assumes that what we want isn’t going to happen. But when you assume the negative you immediately tell the Universe that it’s not going to happen and the you start turning the gears out of your favour….


How to create drama where there is none.

October 13, 2015

  Do you ever feel like the world is just against you, do you ever have a day that just spirals out of control as you get more and more frustrated. Does the day get worse the more frustrated you feel? We all know people like this. Their lives are constantly full of drama and we all think, just calm down honey. There have been plenty of times when I…