Comments on: Gay 101. How to be a better Bottom.

By: مهدی جون

مهدی جون — Fri, 26 Apr 2013 08:23:00 +0000

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By: gandu mast

gandu mast — Thu, 28 Feb 2013 06:23:00 +0000

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By: SteveMN

SteveMN — Sat, 06 Oct 2012 19:49:00 +0000

Sorry for being so harsh, but …

How to be a better bottom?

It is one thing to give yourself away, but quite another to throw yourself away. Try to avoid the greedy bastards, they make terrible lovers.

Have fun, but play safe.

If you can’t play safe, then find alternatives. There is a wide spectrum of activity between staying home and top/bottom. If you are in a circumstance where you can’t top/bottom safely, then explore the many alternatives, and if your partner isn’t OK with that, then likely he is one of the greedy bastards you need to avoid.

Shannon posted a blog on the wide range of alternatives.

By: mike128

mike128 — Sun, 23 Sep 2012 23:42:00 +0000

I don’t think “most would agree”. I’ve never been with a top who wanted me to douche, or had a preference for that. Most have thought it was a ridiculous idea when I’ve asked about it, and that it sorta kills the spontaneity of sex. I know that there are others who feel differently, but I don’t believe that I’m in a minority when I say that douching is really not necessary.

By: Shannon Boh

Shannon Boh — Thu, 20 Sep 2012 00:01:00 +0000

“Get out there, play safe and have one for me hehe.”

By: keith

keith — Wed, 19 Sep 2012 16:25:00 +0000

perhaps i missed it, but i don’t think that you mentioned safe sex as part of your “how to…” seems like a very important of the experience….

By: mike128

mike128 — Wed, 19 Sep 2012 00:57:00 +0000

I agree. I dont find douching to be necessary or even helpful. I don’t think everyone does it, and not douching does not mean you will have an accident or be “dirty”.

By: tyrus

tyrus — Tue, 18 Sep 2012 18:18:00 +0000

The douching debate is endless, but most would agree that there needs to be some sort of preparation before anal play, and there is a big difference between enemas and douching which should not be confused. Daily enemas are definitely not recommended by health professionals for overall colon health, but the colt douche is a great alternative. It should be fine as long as you just use lukewarm water with no soap or other skin irritants and try not to use it every single day. This will allow the mucus that your colon produces naturally to return for regular colon health.

By: Martin

Martin — Tue, 18 Sep 2012 13:15:00 +0000

I can’t agree that douching is either necessary or healthy and just want to register that.