Gay 101. So you wanna have a threesome, how do you tell your boyfriend, and could it damage your relationship?

tongue out
August 29, 2012

There are very few of us who have not at least thought about a threesome or a moresome at some point. The idea of group sex not only makes us horny but also curious. Threesomes and group sex can be awesome fun, but how do we raise the subject with our boyfriend or significant other? Sometimes couples will introduce a guest star to spice things up, but they can also…


Hottie of the week.

August 28, 2012

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Masculinity, sexual power and stereotypes.

August 24, 2012

I was recently asked, in the Gay world do we perceive the Bottom as less masculine than the Top? This is a good question. Gender roles and sexual preferences ( in the context of tops and bottoms ) are an interesting topic. There are so many variables, that to cover everything would be almost impossible. I can however speak from my own experience and hopefully be able to give some…


What makes a body “better”?

August 22, 2012

We constantly hear about, talk about, read about and think about “better” bodies. His body is better than mine, my body is better than his, his body is better than that guys, he has the best body. But what exactly makes a body better? A blog reader recently asked me a question on Formspring that included the line, “even though I feel more comfortable in my own body I am…


Becoming out. Blog reader Sterling talks about his coming out experience in the first of a series of posts.

Some people see coming out as a certain, particular point in their lives.  It’s always viewed as that point when you actually tell someone…”I am gay”.  My story has shown coming out to be a process, not a singular incident in time.  This arduous path is usually filled with moments of uncertainty and self-doubt.  But as those who have traveled on this road know, the end is worth the rocky road. I wish…

August 21, 2012

Formspring Question. Have you ever used a Banana in a seductive way?

August 20, 2012

Banana’s always seem to come up in this kind of question for obvious reasons. They look like a dick. That long shaft and gentle curve evokes all kinds of images. This question reminds me of sitting in Sex Ed watching my middle aged Phys Ed Teacher explain to a room full of giggling teenage boys how to roll on a condom. He used a banana, and then a softball bat….


How do I select the hottie of the week?

August 20, 2012

The hottie of the week has not been without it’s discussion in the past and there has often been comment about the types of guys reflected in these posts. I think it’s worth writing a little this week about how I go about selecting the hottie of the week. Firstly, while I have a sweet tooth for Twinks, I tend to avoid posting them as it is often difficult to…