The slave boy fantasy is something that has been a bit of fun for me for some time now. Fantasies and roll plays can be very erotic, especially when you do them with somebody who is just as committed to it as you are.
The slave boy fantasy is not uncommon, you only need to look at the number of fetish sights out there dedicated to Masters and slaves. There are lots of guys out there who like to be dominated or who like to dominate.
I think the fantasy comes from the dynamics of control. So many of us have to be in control in our day to day lives that the chance to let loose and allow somebody else to make our decisions for us for a brief and sexy moment is something that can be wildly attractive. Add my exhibitionist streak to my love of dressing up, and you have a potent and arousing mix.
The fantasy is different for everyone. For me the fantasy is less about the minute details of positions, slings, and leather harnesses as it is about indulging in the fantasy itself. You don’t have to be bolted in to a sling wearing a harness, jockstrap and pins through your nipples for it to be a slave boy fantasy. The fantasy can be as simple as allowing your partner to take control and dominate you in any way they wish. Obviously there is a safe word and you indulge with somebody you trust. The experience can range from a pair of fluffy handcuffs to a full blow BDSM Session.
For me, whether I am being Dominant or submissive the most fun comes from when all involved commit. Trust is of huge importance. Trust in your partner(s) and trust in yourself to be able to put the brakes on if you need to.
I remember the first time I was tied up. I knocked on the Masters door. I had been instructed to arrive bare foot and wear only jeans and a t-shirt. I was to call him Sir from the moment I entered the room. We had already agreed on my limits and a were using a traffic light system for safety.
Red meant “stop”
Green meant “keep going”
Orange meant “I’m reaching my limit, but keep going”.
I have also played in the Masters position and have enjoyed domination play with guys who I have made serve me. Always there is the need for trust and respect.
Sexual exploration is fun and the slaveboy fantasy is just one of many ways to explore your more erotic side.
If you’re keen… Call me