>Gay Youth are pulling their weight, they don’t need yours as well.

> Occasionally, though rarely, a reader will leave a comment on a post that I feel demands a response. Yesterday I posted a notice on the fanpage about Wear it Purple who are an Australian organization supporting rainbow youth at risk and their second Wear it Purple Day┬ácoming this September 2nd. “You have the right to be proud of who you are Wear it Purple exists in order to help…

August 29, 2011
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>Thought for the week.

>“Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life.” Steve Jobs Blog this! Recommend on Facebook Share via MySpace share via Reddit Tumblr it Tweet about it Subscribe to the comments on this post

August 29, 2011
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>There is life beyond being Gay.

> Like all things what you see is only the tip of the iceberg. The term “gay lifestyle” often comes up in conversations with people I know. I have had boyfriends, friends and family who have all said, oh your life is so Gay. The haters also use it to generalize our community. I don’t really think about it that much, I mean if I am Gay then my life…

August 26, 2011
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>Self love is the best kind of love.

> We are all looking for love. Love from family, love from friends, love from our partners. Often we find that love eludes us. There is a great line, If you can’t love yourself then how will anyone else? There is a little truth to this statement. Those of us who are filled with self loathing often make ourselves unavailable. We say to ourselves “why would anyone want me?”, and…

August 24, 2011
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>Thought for the week.

>“I never think of failures or bumps in the road as going backwards. Sometimes I go fast and sometimes I go slow, but never backwards. Change your thinking and change your world”. Me Blog this! Recommend on Facebook Share via MySpace share via Reddit Tumblr it Tweet about it Subscribe to the comments on this post

August 22, 2011
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>Toxic food for thought.

> We all know that I believe that you are what you eat. I try to look after myself by limiting junk food, eating well and staying away from sugary drinks and fatty foods, but what about thoughts that are toxic for your body? It’s easy to manage the physical substances that we put in our body and avoid the obviously toxic foods that will contribute to ill health and…

August 17, 2011
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>Back to basics

> Sorry for my absence over the last few days. There has been a lot going on and I have been trying to keep up with it all. Work is quite busy at the moment and I am going to be travelling again over the next 3 months. It looks like I may be in a different city almost every weekend again.  It’s always exciting travelling for work and even…

August 17, 2011
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>Gay 101. What’s with all the labels?

>Ok so by now you must have heard at least some of the labels that we use as Gay boys to help us to identify, categorize, group, sort, pigeonhole, typecast and stereotype each other. Labels can make us feel comfortable. They can make us feel like we are part of a group or community. Labels can also be used to put down and disparage by enforcing negative stereotypes.So why post…

August 11, 2011
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